hey everyone ,
I hope everything’s going well . I’ve missed you so much and Y’ALL I’M FINALLY BAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAACK !!! I’m super excited for this post , I wanted to do it since I started blogging but I always end up having other blog posts plans ! so , it’s time to talk more and more about BULLYING as you can tell by the title . all what I’m gonna say is really from my heart ! I hope y’all enjoy this post and let’s goooooooooooooooooooooooo!!!!
bullying has become very popular lately . obviously , some people use it as joking and some others as teasing ! in both ways , bullying must be forbidden in any place around the world . bullying has drawbacks more than you can even imagine . it’s very common that the bullied one wouldn’t be able to handle all these threats , haressments and teasing on his conscience , so the only solution in front of him/her is to commit suicide ! and I saw lots of videos and I read lots of stories and most of them had ended up this way !
you may hate people whose not like you , you may tease them ..but always remember that they do have feelings , they cry and keep inside themselves . you should know the consequences of your actions . there’s nothing different between you and anyone you hate . in the end , all of us are humans.
I asked my myself , what’s the main reason behind bullying ? why do they bully ? is it fun ? maybe because of hatred ? maybe to act in a cool way ? I couldn’t find a convincing answer . is it that easy , teasing your classmates or friends and make fun of them in front of others , making them have inner conflict inside themselves , allowing them to think about committing suicide? is that really what will make you happy and proud of yourself ? it is really hard for the bullied ones … if you weren’t in their shoes before , you would never know how they’re feeling .
A bullying culture can develop in any context in which people interact with each other in school , workplace , home and neighborhoods . bullying can be verbal , physical , relational and cyber .
did you ask yourself before what do bullied ones feel ? I’ll tell you . they feel anxious , depressed , insecure , afraid , angry and nervous. mostly , they couldn’t concentrate in the class and they’re always thinking why is this happening to them . they usually end up in physical fights or arguments while trying to defend themselves , they regularly feel nervous to go to school and especially alone . they always avoid group situations and conversations , they spend a lot of time trying to figure out what to do or where to go to avoid these harassments and threats . they always think if their parents knew what’s happening , they’ll be worried and upset .
they’ll lose self-confidence and happiness until they know that they’re worth it and that they shouldn’t listen to other people’s opinion about them . until they notice that they’re beautiful just the way they are . some kids who are bullied believe that it’s their fault , they think there’s something wrong with them and they’re worth picking on .
we need to stop bullying ! when you see a bullied one or a new comer in your school, university , neighborhood ,workplace ,etc. try to talk to that person and make him/her feel good about themselves and make them feel loved . if they have some bad states in their personalities , maybe you should go and talk to them about these bad states and ask them to stop it because maybe this will hurt or bother someone .
if you saw a bully , try to talk to him/her saying that this really hurts the bullied one and that this is really hard for him/her . maybe the bully will understand ! at that time , you should be really proud of yourself because you stopped this bad process .
write down in a piece of paper ” STOP BULLYING ” and stick it all around the place that you’re in . in the school , university , street , workplace , etc. I think that this one may work !! we need to do all what we can to stop bullying and to make people feel good about themselves .
don’t judge size , skin color (tone) , marital status , clothes , etc . because everyone is beautiful in her/his way . no one is better than the other , in the end all of us are humans and we do have feelings ; this is what we call equality .
maybe we should do a challenge ? can you challenge yourself ? well , let’s go more in details ! look , if you saw someone teasing the other in a very bad way , try to go into the conversation and stop it . tell the bullied one that there’s nothing wrong with him/her and that everyone is beautiful just the way they are . I don’t know , but tell him/her anything that will make him/her feel good about themselves . I don’t know if this will do something , but I believe that by sharing this maybe we could save someone .
If you turn and face the other way when someone is being bullied, you might as well be the bully too. share and spread love among all your classmates or friends . we need to learn how to love each others , we need to learn that everyone is beautiful in their own way . we need to understand that all of us are humans and we do have feelings . we need to shout and scream and say ” STOP BULLYING ” WE CAN DO IT IF EVERYONE STARTS BY HIMSELF / HERSELF .
we reached the end of this post , thank you so much for reading it !! I hope you enjoyed it. if anyone has an idea on how to stop bullying , please share it sown in the comments below.